I Know What Boys Like...

Actually, I have no clue! I do know what I like and honestly, that's the only thing that matters. Like I said in my very first post, I dress for me and no one else. This isn't to say that I don't put in a little extra effort if I'm meeting that cute boy for coffee, or I have a super important interview. But, it's important to note, that I'm still not dressing for them. I am presenting myself the way I would like to see myself in the mirror. This gives me confidence, and thus I am able to introduce the best me to the person sitting on the other side of the table.

Ultimately, this confidence leads to my happiness, and well, I think that's the bottom line right there, don't you?

Having said all this, I normally put a fair amount of thought into what I wear everyday, well most days. I do have those go-to pieces that I can easily grab on my lazy days. Just pondering on what I want to wear tomorrow makes me excited to get up in the morning (late morning). Although, sometimes I do think about it too much and this might cause slight sleep deprivation from time to time. This often happens when I'm in the mood to try something completely new and I know it has the chance to fail. I need to make sure every element of the outfit works together-the top, bottom, shoes, bag, hairstyle, make-up and outerwear (the coat's gotta flow with the bag, or the whole thing is a disaster!) It's all worth it though when you put it on, take a look in the mirror and say "how we lookin'? SO good!" (for you S. and S.).

Mission for the Week: Don't be afraid to really dive into your wardrobe and mix things up, it's not gonna kill you (unless you make a HUGE mistake in which case I take NO responsibility-I will probably make fun of you though. But, if we're smart and we want to grow into our own style we will take those disasters and make a masterpiece. WARNING: this is not for the faint of heart, if you seriously fuck up it's NOT My Problem and please don't share your advice with others. Love you!

So go forth, venture into that mess of a closet (don't fall in, and when you do, come out looking more fabulous than ever!)

In conclusion, I think boys like you, and if you like you then you're doing great! (that was a tad confusing...)