It's been a while...

I realized it had been too long since my last post when I decided to scroll through my old posts and it took me a whole 3 minutes to read them all.  So with that, I begin a new year and a new blog post, complete with a new blog layout to boot.  I hope you'll like it.

I have a few things planned for this year:  one, write more blog posts (I'm already wishing myself luck on that, so don't worry you don't have to); two, create a business card advertising myself as a personal stylist (and hope this leads to some sort of business).

At the moment, that is what I'm seeing for myself.  As for my actual blog post it will be up shortly.

Enjoy the new look!  

Nouveau

You know that feeling when you meet someone and you're just getting to know them?  Especially when that new person is someone you find yourself attracted to as possibly more than friends.  You have the usual conversations that help introduce yourself to the other person.  There is normally a degree of tension, or at least of hesitancy while you ponder how much of yourself you should divulge to them.  Obviously, depending on how comfortable you feel with this person will determine how much and when you will let them in completely.  Yet, it is a very important thing to remember that while you might not want to share everything too fast, what you do share should be the utmost truth.  For there is no point in starting off on the wrong foot, or indeed on someone else's foot entirely.

This is the same when wearing a new outfit for the first time.  It might sound completely absurd to compare the two, but bare with me.  When you pick out a new outfit you put a part of yourself into it.  For the fashion beginners to understand where I'm trying to go with this, think of an ensemble that was for a very special night, perhaps a first date, or prom, something of the sort.  Remember how you wanted to look that night, remember how you thought of the shapes and the colors, how they would accent your makeup and so on.  You picked out something that you felt represented you the most. Something you could look at and exclaim, this is me!  Then remember to when you first looked into the mirror once you were all made up. How did you feel?  Well if you were true to yourself when you were selecting what to wear, you should have felt drop-dead gorgeous in a way that made you think, "Ya, I'd hit that".    You felt like you.  And that's the best anyone can hope for.

Well, I believe it's the same when entering into an new relationship, whether it be with the possible love of your life or a new best friend.  The more of you that you share the truer and stronger that relationship will be.  And like I always say, if you love you that's all that matters.

NYE 2010

This New Years I was actually quite tired.  I was in the mood for a big to-do, but lack of energy really killed things.  However, with some help from my number one stylist/friend I think I pulled off a fantastic look for the would be crazy night.

Dress was a tad short and backless with chic draping.  Pairing it with cute heart dotted sheer tights took the pressure off the hem line.  Also, anything can be classed-up with a little help from our friends pearls! Left the hair straight with fairly natural make-up (and a touch of glitter-it's NYE people, it's allowed!).

Lace me Up!

Sunday Work Attire.

Blue lace button down blouse, vintage;

Square buckle belt, Club Monaco;

Black lace pencil skirt, vintage;

patent leather pumps, Aldo.

My Love...s

My first pair of designer shoes were Dolce and Gabbana! I found them with my best friend and sister at Holt Renfrew in Vancouver during their HUGE summer sale. I should have bought two!

I Know What Boys Like...

Actually, I have no clue! I do know what I like and honestly, that's the only thing that matters. Like I said in my very first post, I dress for me and no one else. This isn't to say that I don't put in a little extra effort if I'm meeting that cute boy for coffee, or I have a super important interview. But, it's important to note, that I'm still not dressing for them. I am presenting myself the way I would like to see myself in the mirror. This gives me confidence, and thus I am able to introduce the best me to the person sitting on the other side of the table.

Ultimately, this confidence leads to my happiness, and well, I think that's the bottom line right there, don't you?

Having said all this, I normally put a fair amount of thought into what I wear everyday, well most days. I do have those go-to pieces that I can easily grab on my lazy days. Just pondering on what I want to wear tomorrow makes me excited to get up in the morning (late morning). Although, sometimes I do think about it too much and this might cause slight sleep deprivation from time to time. This often happens when I'm in the mood to try something completely new and I know it has the chance to fail. I need to make sure every element of the outfit works together-the top, bottom, shoes, bag, hairstyle, make-up and outerwear (the coat's gotta flow with the bag, or the whole thing is a disaster!) It's all worth it though when you put it on, take a look in the mirror and say "how we lookin'? SO good!" (for you S. and S.).

Mission for the Week: Don't be afraid to really dive into your wardrobe and mix things up, it's not gonna kill you (unless you make a HUGE mistake in which case I take NO responsibility-I will probably make fun of you though. But, if we're smart and we want to grow into our own style we will take those disasters and make a masterpiece. WARNING: this is not for the faint of heart, if you seriously fuck up it's NOT My Problem and please don't share your advice with others. Love you!

So go forth, venture into that mess of a closet (don't fall in, and when you do, come out looking more fabulous than ever!)

In conclusion, I think boys like you, and if you like you then you're doing great! (that was a tad confusing...)

Le Grand Chapeau

Today it was raining, it's January on Vancouver Island, I'm not sure why I expected something different.
Anyways, I decided to wear my big wool hat, my long leather gloves and my wool capelette (sp?).

Wow, the myriad of reactions I got from people about the hat! I couldn't believe it! (well I could, it's Nanaimo).

Girl from work said "WOW! You look really good! Are you trying to hide your hair? Or did you just want to wear a hat?" Compliment killed.

Boss at work "Aviva? I didn't recognize you!" As if I put a hat on and wow, new Face!

Cafeteria woman on campus: "That's a good idea instead of an umbrella. We only have so many hands!" Practical comment I guess.

I actually got a normal compliment from a complete stranger at the bus stop who just politely said "Very pretty hat." Thanks!

Save the BEST for last. Most awkward and ridiculously funny comment from guy in theater building: "That hat is scary! I mean, it's big, and black...I mean, it's nice, but it's intimidating...You're just gonna keep shaking your head at me aren't you?...ok, well...ya..." Biting my lip!

Well, I think people should wear hats more often. They are NOT scary. The right hat on the right person brightens up the ensemble. Sure it brings a sense of mystery, but don't we all want to be a little aloof sometimes? It's not always just something to be worn on bad hair days, all though it has it's advantages.

People, mission for next week: Wear a hat one day! Don't have one? Buy one! Love it! Wear it! Pick your fav color and make sure it looks damn good! You've gotta have the right state of mind to wear a hat! You've gotta OWN IT! Don't let the hat wear you!

Bonne Chance!